It happens again. I feel I have to change. And I do everything for that change. I see the aim just in front of me. However, I can't do the next step. I want to run away.
My head is full of voices:
you can't do it. you will never have success. you are a loser anyway. Noone will read that blog of yours. it is just another blow. why are you taking all this efforts? this is embarrassing. you are embarrassing. what you produce is embarrassing.
And I wonder why do I have these doubts?
My life is miserable, because of them.
Again I would like accuse my parents or my teachers or anyone out there. It is their fault. But really, it is just my own responsibility. They might have given me these thoughts. However, it is me, who is making a victim out of myself. It is me, who then just gets encouraged and gives in. It is me who gives up this dream.
Instead of giving up. You can use them as advisors. These critical voices are actually your best friends.
They tell you constantly, why what is not good enough. Instead of taking it as an offense and letting it make you drop your project, you can take them as advice on how to improve your product.
I looked deeper. I am about to create blog about finding yourself. Online courses and ebooks.
And each time I want to buy the domain, my head just whispers: are you sure? And I can't click. It has been happening for so many hours now, that I decided to write about these doubts.
However, now taking it as a constructive critic. My response is. Okay lets see. Do I have a real plan in here? Did I actually think it through? Have I considered the exact, target group, the exact problem I want to solve for them, the exact solution and tools? Are these tools and solutions useful?
And you know what, I realized I do not need to have a yes on each of this questions. A yes for most of these questions is good enough.
I just clicked.
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